Finish this sentence for yourself:
I have always wanted to ……. but haven’t because ………
Now look at the last part of the sentence that starts with “because.” I mean really look at it, observe it. Take several deep breaths and ask yourself: is this truly a good reason not to do what I want, or is it just a fear? If it is a fear then it is time to tackle that fear head on. There is no true way to bury a fear; it will always come back and bite you in the butt later. We have to learn to let go of our fears and move forward.
"You must do that thing you think you can not do" – Eleanor Roosevelt
It is easy as women to think “my priority is my family” and I agree whole heartedly. Here is where I get confused: exactly when did your family become minus you? Are you not a part of your own family? If your family is a priority, then logically so are you. They don’t make comments like “the family is only happy if mom is happy” for no reason at all. It is true.
To be happy you must pursue your passions and dreams as well as encourage, inspire and support your family in their pursuits. To confront your fear and do what you want is as simple as moving into action. If you want to start your own business, take one small step; go to the library and get books on how start a business. If you want to go back to school, go online and check out some schools. Try attending class an hour a week; it's nothing big, just small steps. I know of a woman who was so busy she could only take one class a semester. Four years later she went in to talk with her advisor and he told her she had one more class to go to receive her masters. It may seem like a long time, but she could have not gone at all and would still not have her masters. Small steps are the easiest and as long as you stay focused on our goal you will get there.
If you want more information on how to move through your fear contact me at:
Greta Jaeger, CPLC, LPC
(404) 259-1335
greta@CoachingYourDreams.com
www.CoachingYourDreams.com
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